There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves punishment, and the one who fears is not perfected in love. (1 John 4:18)
My firstborn son was barely two years old as I watched him violate a cardinal rule in our house — no candy before dinner. I observed him from the living room as he looked around to make sure no one was watching, snatched the chocolate bar from the cabinet, and tiptoed into his room. My rookie daddy’s heart was saddened that my only child, with whom I had just spent the whole afternoon tickling, playing, and laughing together would do such a thing. (And for the first time I felt God’s grief in Eden as He watched Adam and Eve eat from that tree...).
I quietly walked into his room, where I could see just the top of his hair sticking out above the bed behind which he was hiding. The rustling sound of the wrapper brought a smile to my face as I wondered how he would respond to my presence. Just then it occurred to me: I am the last person in the world he wants to see right now. To him, I am the judge come to bring wrath upon him. The thought was heartbreaking, and I felt more sorrow for him than anger as I approached him. He was so caught up in that chocolate bar he did not even see me until I was nearly on top of him. His eyes widened, and his chocolate-covered face took on the look of sheer panic. He then screamed, jumped, and crashed into the wall in one motion. Then he fell into my arms, sobbing.
His tears proved he needed no discipline, just restoration and a brief word of acknowledgment that I could see he knew what he did was wrong. His tear soaked eyes revealed an understanding of the mercy he had just received, and my reward for showing mercy was the tightest hug he had to give. Now we could get back to enjoying one other again.
Perhaps your worst sin is much more harmful than eating candy before dinner? Can you believe that fellowship with the Father in heaven is just that easy to restore? It is! David knew it. Billions have experienced it. Only our fear of punishment keeps us from enjoying it. Will you allow Hi perfect love to overcome your imperfect way of living? Will you, by faith, see that there is no punishment waiting the saints of God — only the restoration that the Father is eager to have with us? Daddy is waiting for that hug from His contrite child. Give Him what he deserves!
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